From Moth to Social Butterfly

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Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) is all about how our minds work and how you can use language to change the way you think, behave and achieve results. This stuff is

The Deal

You Began With Vision, Gusto, Passion!

It all rapidly went downhill faster than you can say WTF**K!


Overcome with defeat as your life continues to hit every crater sized pot hole along the way.

You don’t want to face the ‘Nay Sayers’ with that “I’ve failed and you were right” crushed look on your face… WTF? NO! You cannot let this happen…

What You Need is a Lifestyle Revolution

Come and join the tribe who, like you, have a vision.

You can see your life’s path, right in front of you, you can taste the sweetness of success, hell, if you just leaned over a little… you could catch a quick stroke of it!

Why then is it soooo darned elusive the little bugger?

Because you have the right stuff but the sequence and approach is all wrong.


You have things to learn, you need to know you’re chasing the right pot of gold, chances are you’re not.

I will show you the secrets of your mind and how you can start to make it really work for you.

You need to challenge yourself to do more, think more, explore more

Then plan, plan well, plan right, plan some more

You need a good kick ass character to help you swerve around the potholes, I graciously accept that role

Once you get going, you will gracefully glide through the downhills and groove your way to success, one life changing step at a time

So Where to Now?

Well, this is a good place to start as any


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I help individuals like you transform your idea of what is and isn’t possible.

I laugh in the face of catastrophe (apart from the time I actually died… couldn’t really laugh then)

I share my little gems of clarity, calm, confidence and ‘can do’  systems to get you where you want to be

I empower, guide and kick butt so that you can make those no good ‘Nay Sayers’ lower their heads in shame


Join the lifestyle revolution and conquer those potholes, major flops and ‘Nay Sayers’

Enough about that, I know you want to see the goods…

Start Your Lifestyle Revolution Here, With Me…

Why? Read on…

Deeply passionate about making the most of life, rising above the smoke and grey clouds and helping you achieve the same.

A lifetime learner, devouring courses in everything to do with people development, teaching and psychology.

A qualified teacher, trainer, coach and Neuro-linguistic practitioner, CIPD member… I know I have the tools to make things happen for you.

I like this stuff so much, I have helped and trained over 14,000 people since 2007… I LOVE PEOPLE!!

My testimonials do a great job of speaking on my behalf, just in case you think I look a bit sheepish or suspect in that photo (snigger)

I have tried and tested numerous different approaches because one size does not fit all.. you are special and unique and I totally respect that, actually that’s why I love this work so much!

I Am Shahilla

Born at the tail end of an era where anything goes, love was totally free and came with flower crowns. To parents who were lovers of people, partying and wayfaring.

Labelled a ‘tom boy’ at a time when playing (innocently of course!) with boys was frowned upon, my frustrated parents would longingly look at my wardrobe full of unworn dresses and despair.

Always a bit of a dreamer (hence the choice of an ethereal looking photo that implies I’ve just flown in from a sparkly place). I believe with a bit of passion, planning, the right tools and a butt kicking individual (moi) to make you take action; you can achieve those dreams and aspirations you’ve so readily put on the back burner

I’m a single mum of two wonderful young ladies… a bit of a sticking point in the early days, do I give a shit? No! and neither should you. I love being a mum, dad, DIY’er, chef, shoulder to cry on, and comedian to my children.

My girls will agree wholeheartedly when I say, I’m quite a crazy, cool person. I love singing, dancing, dirt biking, quad biking… I’m a bit of a petrol head… you see? All that’s pretty cool.

I am an active protester of all that is wrong in the world, and a crazy passionate supporter of making our world a better place for all. So much so, I started my own charity almost 20 years ago and it’s still going strong…. yea baby!

A reluctant Vegan who sometimes just has to eat an good organic free range egg on the very rare occasion. I love to experiment with food… mostly making naughty desserts that my vegan diet doesn’t allow me to enjoy in most blasted restaurants (even in London!)

Not quite yet a tree hugger (well maybe on the odd occasion) I do love nature and all it’s inhabitants… I love the creepy crawly ones from a safe distance.


So What are you waiting for?

I once read something, somewhere, to this effect: “Your life is your story, to write, re-write and edit until it reads and looks exactly as you want and planned”

So my closet warrior, if you want to become part of a lifestyle revolution, Join the clan here. It’s time to let your story commence…

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